Desire Pearl Riviera Maya Resort - All Inclusive - Adults Only

Customer Ratings & Reviews

TripAdvisor Traveler Rating

3161 reviews

• 

  Disappointing and stay away!!!

  Disappointing Return Visit — The Warm, Welcoming Resort We Remember Is Gone We are returning guests to Desire Pearl, although it had been about seven years since our last visit, before COVID. We had very fond memories of the resort and were genuinely looking forward to coming back for a special occasion. The property itself has not changed dramatically, with the major exception of the newer, ultra-exclusive area known as The Mansion, which appears to have only a small number of rooms. When we arrived at the main lobby, we received the warm welcome we remembered. Unfortunately, that feeling disappeared very quickly. Within approximately 15 minutes of arriving, we were subjected to what felt like a high-pressure membership and upgrade sales pitch. It reminded us more of a bad timeshare presentation than the beginning of a luxury vacation. We were not staying on a discounted promotion or special membership rate. We paid full price for an all-inclusive stay, yet almost immediately we were made to feel that being a non-member put us in a completely different class of guest. Because we were celebrating a special occasion, I agreed to pay an additional $300 for a three-night room upgrade. That is when another major disappointment became apparent. The accommodations available to us as non-members felt extremely dated and poorly maintained. We encountered a moldy-looking bathroom, dirty tile floors, an aging sliding glass door with a lock that did not function properly, and an air-conditioning vent that repeatedly leaked water onto the tile floor. The leaking water became more than an inconvenience when we did not notice it and there was a slip and fall. We reported the issue multiple times. Each time, we were told that someone would be sent to address it, but during our stay the problem was never properly resolved. When I asked about receiving a refund for the paid room upgrade because of these conditions, I was told that no one available had the authority to issue one. That experience also revealed something we noticed repeatedly throughout the trip: the first question employees seemed to ask before helping us was, “What room are you in?” Even when asking a simple question, such as where to make a restaurant reservation, our room number appeared to determine the answer and level of service. We eventually learned that, as non-members, we could not make restaurant reservations and instead had to rely on first-come, first-served availability. Throughout the restaurants, bars, pool area, and concierge interactions, the color-coded wristbands made it obvious who was a member and who was not. In our experience, the difference in treatment was noticeable. What was once a warm, friendly, welcoming resort now felt much more like a corporate operation focused heavily on memberships, upgrades, and status levels. Unfortunately, the food was also very disappointing compared with what we remembered, and many of the drinks tasted weak or watered down. The biggest disappointment was not that the resort had changed physically. Resorts evolve. It was that the entire atmosphere had changed. We previously remembered Desire Pearl as a place where couples could relax, feel welcomed, and enjoy a unique romantic experience. This time, we frequently felt like second-class guests simply because we were not members—even though we had paid full price for our stay. For couples considering Desire Pearl for a romantic getaway, I would strongly recommend researching the current membership structure and exactly what privileges you will and will not receive before booking. We came back because of how much we enjoyed Desire Pearl in the past. Sadly, based on this experience, we left wishing we had chosen somewhere else. If zero stars were an option based on this stay, that would be our rating.

  Oct 05, 2026
• 

  Very disappointed

  We recently stayed at Pearl in September. We have stayed there about 10 times over the last 8 years. We would rate all our prior stays at 5 stars. However, this trip our experience was totally different, forcing us to now consider other options/resorts in the future. First of all, the good stuff...the workers and playmakers all work very hard and do an excellent job, delivering excellent service. Thank you to the following, for making a very positive experience for us. Claudia at the Melange bar...5+ stars, she was the best! Gilberto and Orlando do an awesome job at the Pearl. Love you more Gilberto!! 🙂 Gabby at the pool, Kia and the playmakers, Antonio and all the pool / chair attendants, provided top notch service. Now for the areas that need some attention: Restaurants: Two nights while we were there, they closed the restaurants due to low occupancy, and our only option was a buffet. We understand possibly not being able to keep all the restaurants open but providing ONLY a buffet option when you are paying $$$$, is NOT acceptable.  Sargassum: Sargassum was awful. We realize this is not totally in the resort's control; but it was just awful. It was piled high on the beach and sat there without any clean up attempt for 3-4 days. There were workers out there that started working on day 4-5 of our stay, but it just continued to pile up on the beach each day. The worst part is the stench; it was bad throughout the entire resort. Someone told us, you'll get used to the smell...so not true.  Pools: Something was off with the pools. There was a continuous dark line around the entire interior of the pool located at the water line. The pool attendants were constantly trying to clean that area. After spending time in the pools, we discovered a film or scum on you after leaving the pool. You could even see the residue on the tan pool towels, if you did not shower off first. We never saw them shock the pool during our entire stay and there was never, ever even a hint of a chlorine smell.

  Sep 15, 2026
• 

  Won’t be back

  The resort was small and quaint. The room was just okay. The ac worked well. The food was just okay. The sargassum was awful and smelled horrible. We couldn’t t even get close to the beach. We didn’t like that the resort kept trying to up sell us on everything. We talked to couples that had bought into it and they told us to beware and that they regretted it. They said that they get treated worse and worse every time they go. That was our first time there and last.

  Sep 12, 2026
• 

  ONE STAR — ABSOLUTELY NOT A FIVE-STAR OR WHEELCHAIR-ACCESSIBLE RESORT

  ONE STAR — ABSOLUTELY NOT A FIVE-STAR OR WHEELCHAIR-ACCESSIBLE RESORT # **THIS IS NOT A SWINGERS RESORT. IT DOESN’T HAVE ANYTHING TO DO WITH SWINGING. NONE OF THE ACTIVITIES HAVE ANYTHING TO DO WITH SWINGING—NOTHING AT ALL.** We paid $5,300 after an advertised 45% discount, and I still feel completely ripped off. At the supposed regular price of nearly twice that amount, this would be outrageous. I am an above-knee amputee who uses a wheelchair. The accessibility problems began the moment our van arrived: there wasn’t even a proper wheelchair ramp from the unloading area into the lobby. During check-in, an employee simply drew on a map and tried to explain the resort. Nobody gave us a tour, showed us the restaurants, explained which facilities were open, or showed us the playroom. Before we had even finished checking in, however, they were already trying to arrange a sales presentation. They had time to sell us something else, but apparently no time to introduce us properly to the resort we had already paid thousands of dollars to visit. The first doors beyond the lobby were manual sliding doors. Imagine trying to operate those while driving a wheelchair. The first accessible route included an extremely steep ramp. When we finally reached our supposedly wheelchair-friendly room, staff had to bring over a wooden platform so I could even get inside. The room was absolutely not wheelchair friendly. There was barely enough space to manoeuvre around the furniture, cabinet doors blocked the limited space, and I couldn’t properly bring my wheelchair into the bathroom. The shower didn’t even have a basic shower bench for a disabled guest, and there were no adequate grab bars. A resort charging this kind of money could not provide a simple $50 shower seat. The resort grounds were also dangerously inaccessible. One night I missed a turn and my wheelchair went off the edge of a stairway. I barely caught myself before smashing my head on the concrete. My wheelchair went flying, and I had to collect everything and get myself back onto the pathway—with one leg. An allegedly accessible resort should never place a wheelchair user one wrong turn away from going down a stairway. The beach was nothing like the promotional photographs. The pictures appeared so heavily enhanced that the real beach was barely recognizable. It was severely eroded, covered with seaweed and smelled terrible. In fact, parts of the resort smelled bad almost every day. This was certainly not the beautiful luxury beach experience being advertised. As an adult lifestyle resort, Pearl was also a major disappointment. The resort mixes nudists, curious couples and swingers together, but provides no clear way of knowing who is interested in what. Guests are apparently expected to sit outside drinking in extreme heat and humidity until they somehow meet compatible people. My wife and I don’t want to get drunk while playing—we came for an adult lifestyle experience. The bracelet system shows exactly how backwards this place is. They take the time to colour-code guests according to their status or tier in the resort’s system. We were given yellow bracelets to identify us as first-time guests. Yet they don’t provide a second bracelet—or any other identification—to show what guests are actually interested in: full swap, soft swap, curious, nudist only or not interested in playing at all. At a supposed swingers resort, that is the information people actually need. Instead, nobody knows who is compatible with whom. Even worse, we had to wear the bright yellow Desire Pearl bracelet for the entire week and couldn’t take it off. When we left the resort and went into town, it advertised to everyone that we were staying at an expensive resort. We might as well have been walking around with signs saying, “We have money—charge us more.” It made us walking wallets and easy targets for inflated tourist prices. I am not some rich man with money to throw away. I am a working man who works six days a week to afford a trip like this. The resort was more interested in displaying our tier and advertising its brand on our wrists than helping compatible lifestyle couples identify and meet one another. We came specifically for a swingers vacation, and we didn’t even set our expectations particularly high. We thought we might have a couple of play dates during our stay. Do you know how many we had? Zero. We are fully open swingers. We aren’t shy, we genuinely enjoy playing, and we remain sober because we don’t believe in becoming intoxicated before we play. If a completely open and willing couple can visit a supposed swingers resort and leave without a single play date, that says everything about how badly the lifestyle side of this resort works. It was a complete waste of time. The small playroom doesn’t open until approximately 10:30 p.m. We were never shown it during check-in and only knew what it looked like from photographs. Why isn’t there an air-conditioned afternoon play period? Many working adults are tired or already in bed by the time the room opens. Suggesting that guests use the hot tub instead is ridiculous when it is around 40°C with extremely high humidity. The evening entertainment was cheesy, juvenile and mostly unrelated to a genuine adult lifestyle experience. It felt more like a poorly planned amateur show than entertainment at a high-end swingers resort. The food was mediocre at best. Much of it consisted of repetitive buffets, and some meals were served outside in oppressive heat. Restaurant schedules were unclear, menus were repetitive, and nobody properly explained what was open or when. We even had to find the excursion-booking room ourselves several days into the trip. The spa was another unbelievable rip-off. I went for a foot massage—and I only have one foot. We paid nearly the equivalent of $200 Canadian for approximately 25 minutes of massaging one foot. Back home in Canada, I can go to Happy Feet and pay about $50 for a full 50-minute foot massage, including having my foot washed. In a first-world country, I receive twice as much service for one quarter of the total price. At Pearl, in Mexico, the per-minute cost was approximately eight times higher. That isn’t five-star luxury; it is absolutely outrageous. Management came across as rude and unhelpful. They were eager to promote an extremely expensive Mansion area that ordinary guests cannot access, yet they couldn’t provide a basic tour of the facilities included in our own stay. I do want to separate management from the everyday employees. The servers, cooks, cleaners and buffet staff were excellent people who worked hard and did their best with what they had. My criticism is directed at the management, accessibility, facilities and misleading presentation of this resort—not the frontline staff. Desire Riviera Maya Pearl was sold to us as a luxurious five-star adult lifestyle resort. What we experienced was an inaccessible, poorly organized, badly maintained property with misleading beach photographs, mediocre food and very little genuine lifestyle atmosphere. At $5,300 on sale, I felt completely ripped off. At the supposed regular price, I cannot imagine being more disappointed. I would never recommend this resort—especially to anyone with a disability or anyone expecting a genuine, well-organized swingers experience.

  Aug 27, 2026
• 

  Please Read

  For starters, we’ve been members for five years now, and the beach has never been worse because of the sea grass. The fish smell when it hits you is unbelievable. The prices are also getting out of control. We were quoted one price for a massage, but when we checked out, it was three times higher. They’ve also gotten rid of a lot of great staff. During the week, the resort was at 35% capacity or less. The vibe was still there, and we had a great time overall. We met a lot of wonderful people whom we hope to meet up with again in the future. They’re planning to expand by adding another 90 rooms. After the expansion at RM, many people are now going to Pearl because the atmosphere isn’t even close to what it used to be.

  Aug 25, 2026